Attention Whores

To start this off, I'd like to say there are 2 types of attention: Positive attention and Negative attention.

Evvvvveryone seeks positive attention. Recognition for good grades, achieving goals, getting a new job. That's fine. That's natural. That's not what pisses me off. You're not an attention whore if you seek positive attention, you're just normal.

Now. Negative attention.

Everything I talk about, I talk about because either I myself have experienced it or I have dealt with people who have. Now, I used to be an attention whore... those who thrive off of ANY attention EVEN if it's negative and EVEN if they have to lower their standards & portray themselves in a negative way.

We ALL see the girls on Facebook who are half naked taking mirror pictures with their ass & titties spilling out. And we ALL see the 167 likes and 49 comments. That's NEGATIVE ATTENTION. Why would you bring that on yourself? You are so insecure that you feel the need to post revealing ass (pun possibly intended) pictures of yourself on the internet so creeper ass dudes that you don't even know can tell you how hot you are as they jizz on their computer screen? Cool life.

And some of you right now are thinking, "this girl is a hater..." lol and no... I'm not. I used to be one of those stupid girls & trust me... when you grow up and take a look at yourself and your past behavior you are going to be fucking embarrassed. But the worst part is, some never grow out of it. You'll be 27 years old participating in Titty Tuesday on Twitter. Re-evaluate your life.




Attention whores are the loudest, DEMAND the most attention, dress the most provocatively. Girl, what are you trying to over-compensate for? All the girls can see through that shit and the only reason dudes buy into it is because they know that the girls who are the most insecure are the easiest to fuck. You are making yourself bait. But hey, you probably like it.

Dumb bitches. But you know, whatever. Keep on doing what you do. See where you end up.

I'm gonna be over here dressing classy with a splash of trashy when I need attention. At least I can admit it. Right?

All girls are completely crazy, don't believe me? Watch & Learn.

I won't do video-blogs aka "vlogs" very often... but since this one was already made. Ladies. Watch. Learn. and hold in that crazy.

Why girls DON'T like nice guys

Along the same lines as "why girls like ass-holes" a similar question can be asked: why DON'T girls like nice guys?

Well, the simple answer is because all females are completely fucking crazy. Oh shut up girls, we are. You know it.

But I'm not going to just tell you the simple answer because that won't really help anyone. This blog post is going to be for girls who don't like nice/sweet guys and also for guys who ARE that nice guy, wondering why he can't get a girl.

Girls. You often ask, "Why can't I find a good guy!?" Um bitch, you have found a good guy, but chances are you put him in the friend zone. That's where all of the good guys we know reside.

Guys. Why are you in the friend-zone? Because you were not clear with your intentions from the beginning. If you meet a girl and feel that she is someone you would like to potentially date, then treat her like someone you would potentially date.... NOT a friend. Stupid.

Yes, yes I realize this has not yet answered why girls don't like nice guys, I just needed to address the friend zone first.

So. Now. Really: Why don't girls like nice guys?

Initially you need to play the game & you need to play it right. If we just met a guy and he is offering to take us to dinner right away, buying flowers, trying to take you to the movies, texting you "good morning :)" every fucking day, asking us all of these detailed questions about our lives......... we feel OVER-WHELMED. We don't even fucking KNOW you and you are trying to put all of this effort into us! BACK. THE. FUCK. OFF.

We don't like it because it's so pushy. You haven't given us a chance to even think about you in that way yet. You see, all girls are crazy. If we like a guy we create all these elaborate situations in our minds and fantasize about our first date, what we'll wear, how he'll kiss you, where we'll go. GIVE US A CHANCE TO BUILD YOU UP IN OUR OWN MINDS! If you haven't backed off at all we have no time to do this.

Just like men, women like the chase too. If you are too easy to get and too easily accessible then we don't get to chase at all and we inevitably lose interest. Being too "thirsty" to hang out with someone or get to know them shows that you don't have that much going on for yourself and you rely on others for your worth and meaning. Nooooooobody wants someone like that. That is a terrible recipe for clingyness/craziness.

One fundamental trait that the majority of "Nice Guys" lack is: CONFIDENCE!

You probably see yourself as a nice guy because you are showing interest and respecting the girl, and that's fine. But if you already know what you want it's okay to be aggressive. BUT. With that being said, you need to be aggressive at the correct moments, not aggressive overall. Timing is key.

So no. Girl's DON'T want guys who would bend over backwards for them & that we can walk all over like a door-mat. We are looking for our equal, our partner.

oh. yeah. and sometimes we just won't like you no matter how well you play the game. *shrug*